Mandisa Avutia Online

Just a mama healing her childhood trauma through writing while focused on raising emotionally healthy boys and navigating married life.

One thing is for sure we don’t do fluff here. Stick around if you are a mama invested in being better for yourself and those who adore you. Let’s heal ourselves and change the world.

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Life is hectic, you are pulled from pillar to post daily and this makes it hard to feel like you are in the driver’s seat.

So where must you find the time to heal?

With this workbook, I want to save you time by feeding you tools in small manageable parts.

I hope you find this helpful and stick around for other areas we will tackle in the upcoming weeks.

I wish you the healing you deserve.

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Everything flows from the self. It is imperative to continuously look for ways to heal yourself.

When you recognise that all you do starts within, a new world opens up. A world where you take 100% responsibility for the way life is responding to you. You take responsibility for the relationships that show up in your life and the ones that stay.

Marriage is fun and brings a great sense of security. To love and be loved in return is one of life’s biggest treasures.

But marriage can also be sticky and annoying and you find yourself questioning there entire union.

This is where marriage tips and ideas on how to keep your love happy, come in.

This page is here to help you find resources to help you heal your marriage. Every marriage experiences a rut every now and then. But you can thrive during the rut, check out how in, Your Marriage in a Rut Doesn’t Have to be Hard. 1 Surprising Tip.

Have kids, they said! Parenting is one of the hardest gig one will ever have to do, it is also one of the most rewarding.

I will be the first to admit, giving or getting parenting advice or tips can get tricky fast! Children are not the same and it is delusional to want to parent them the same way.

However, there are gems I have picked up along the way, tips that are more than parenting and rather a way of life. These kind of tips, I love and would love to share with you here.

Take what resonates, forget the rest

As always, take only what resonates for you and your child or children. This is not a platform to shame your parenting style. The aim is to reach the mothers who are ready to parent from a healed place.

This is a space for mothers who need to reparent themselves so they can better parent their children. The tips here will more often than not, point the finger back at the parent and not the child. If this idea scares you and you want to hear none of it, then this page is not for you.

This is where you find all the amazing authors I have read and collaborated with. The goal with the authors’ corner is to open up the industry! It is to showcase the support authors, along with their readers, show one another.

I do hope you will purchase some, if not all, of these titles and grow your library with works from people who have given their ALL! From concept, to writing, to designing and all the way to publishing, on their OWN! It takes a lot of work to self publish, show us some love.

I am an award-winning author, mama bear to two amazing boys, Ethan-Qhawe and Shaka- Dylan.

And I am married to a man who, by all accounts, is a superhero, Thom Avutia.

A healthy, loving and harmonious family is my highest value. So I take time to heal my childhood trauma through writing fiction and about my real-life struggles and revelations.

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