Your Old Story, Stop Living It!

Change Your Old Story

Your Old Story, Stop Living It! Okay, so you know your old story but don’t live there! I will be the first to tell you that it is very tempting to live in the old story. The old story is familiar, you know the plot, and there are rarely any surprises.  And the biggest pay […]

3 Ways To Destroy Your Need To Change Others

You are here because you are someone who values the need to change, right? And in our journey to heal and therefore change or transform, we can get irritated by the people we love who are not doing their work to change. They don’t see the need to change, yet. So what do we do? […]

Year Of Yes- 5 Ways To Change Your Life(Book Review)

Year Of Yes

“You never say yes to anything.” The words that sculpted the Shonda Rhimes we know today. And a movement we now know as the Year of Yes! Did you think that Miss Shondaland herself has a mountain of insecurities that prevent her from living her best life? I know, we all know, that people have […]

5 Reasons to not lose yourself in marriage or motherhood

lose yourself in your marriage or motherhood

You are a mother and a wife who cares about her family. How can you not lose yourself in your marriage or motherhood? These humans need you, especially the kids, right? You are the first person your kid calls when he has a bad dream or falls. Your husband turns to you when he can’t […]

Solve problems in your relationship-7 Steps to help.

black women heal

Another day another outburst. Your fuse is running out and you have no idea how to solve problems in your relationship. I know this life and occasionally still visit that side of relationships. And the truth is I love the side where we harmoniously solve problems a whole lot better than emotional outbursts. What you […]

Anathi Chapter 37

“Do you think my mom is also in heaven?” she asks.

“No, nana your mom…” I stop midway because I don’t know why her mom is not with her.

“Oh, she just doesn’t want me?” She sits on my bed and stares out of the window a hadeda bleats incessantly as if he, too, knows the sorrow holding up the walls in this house.

Anathi Chapter 36

Drinks… The glasses clink and Thobi collapses into the chair at the dinner table, it has been ages since we all got together, a gathering I desperately need after the week I have had and the showdown with MaBhengu. She still insists I have to go twasa, I don’t think this is a need and if […]